Friday, January 30, 2004

Dance Class!!

I can't beilive how disorganized and laid back was the Latin class of ISC!!!I used to go to hart house's Latin class and it was sooo diciplined and quite...in this class every one was talking to each other and the poor teacher had to yell!!he had a nice accent but sometimes I couldn't understand if he is talking in English or Russian!;)but the class was a turn off for me..I mean if I haven't gone to that well organized and serious class in hart house, I guess I wouldn't know the difference...In hart house the class had mirrors so you could see the foot work of the teacher form there and he would separate girls and guys and teach them separately..but this guy was confusing girls and guys together!!ofcourse girls and boys have different steps!!
Last night I had a very interesting converstation for the first time with a persian guy who has matured so much since he has come from Iran...Although there are people in our lab that don't like his ways..but from the begining I realized that he has become real free...free of speech....and I liked people who express themselves without hidding their real meaning...anyways he was saying how the persian guys think about girls...and to my real disappointment I heard such horrible things from him that I am totally turned off by male species!!!specially persian boys...despite the fact that they talk about emotions they are only after one thing...and they are all talk...with no real respect for girls...
I told him that some of my good friends have Italian boyfriends and how wonderful Italian people are..and he confirmed...and said its all about their approach to things...he was saying how persian girls are not emotional and don't express themselves...and ofcourse I told him about the third law of Newtons...how each action has a reaction....when a girl shows emotion to a boy, she is considered to be a bitch in persian culture ofcourse before marriage and the feed back of that is the unemotional behaviour of girls...
It's actually a very confusing matter....anyways his solution to this problem was for persian girls to give persian guys a great deal of hard time if they wanted to cross the red lines....
but I think this has a greater aspect, these are all in theory...I mean emotionally when you get involved with someone you may try to logically reason to not to continue but matters of heart are not like that..and you might know that someone is all wrong for you but still be with that person...why is that??
may be the fear of being alone...fear of loss of support of any kind?
anyways it was great talking to a guy who knows these problems and the funny thing is that he doesn't suggest persian guys for persian girls;)

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